The concept of respect is so fundamental to Immanuel Kant’s moral philosophy as to comprise the only proper stance of one human being toward another. In his Groundwork for the Metaphysic of Morals (1785), Kant writes, “Act in such a way that you treat humanity, whether in your own person or the person of any other, never simply as a means but always at the same time as an end.” Treating people respectfully, then, for Kant, is to treat them as ends in themselves and therefore humanely, acknowledging their free and rational natures. At a basic level, student respect demonstrates an awareness of the fundamental differences making us all unique. Respect at Dartmoor builds on this awareness beginning with the enrollment meeting, wherein students have a chance to articulate their educational experience, their triumphs, and their frustrations. This stance of respect continues throughout a student’s attendance at Dartmoor. All of our students have individualized programs that, while referencing general standards, remain relevant to specific learners, all of whom we consider to be sui generis.
These programs originate from a battery of internal assessments as well as professional evaluations, and the anecdotal information shared by students and parents. Another key to showing student respect resides in the fact that we place all students at instructional level rather than grade level: sometimes these are the same, but when a discrepancy exists, we modify programs to fit our students and not vice versa. This means a 10th grader who reads at a 7th grade reading level begins with 7th grade reading skills and builds from there, and a 7th grader who reads at a 10th grade level starts with 10th grade materials.
As a student progresses, Dartmoor staff ensure the program evolves organically to accommodate the student’s growth and changing needs.This simultaneously guarantees student engagement and demonstrates respect for the learner. For most students, Dartmoor’s approach represents a volte face from their former academic experiences in which the inertia toward conformity dominates with its apparatus of authority and attending rewards and punishments. The Dartmoorian educational experience rather is one of liberation, reengagement, and rediscovery in which students revive their innate passion for learning. Respect is the seed of transformation here, and, for all of us at Dartmoor, helping students realize their potential more fully is both compelling and rewarding work.
Ever seen a perfect pumpkin? Is it the color, or the spherical shape, or the weight that we use to determine worthiness in our holiday décor? Well, according to local farmers this may be the year to go out and seek this wonderful member of the squash family. We managed to catch Diane Hart (formerly Diane Remlinger and a third generation farmer in the Snoqualmie Valley) for a quick pumpkin update.
“The Remlinger family is thrilled with this year’s crop. Perfect complexion, vivid orange coloring, fantastic shapes and durable skin. What more can you ask for in a pumpkin?” This is a great outcome for the Remlinger Farm family as they, along with nearly every other Western Washington farm, have experienced a late harvest of nearly every berry and veggie crop this year. Remlingers actually plants every year in two of three patches (leaving the third to rest) to up the chances of “pumpkin” success and boy did it pay off this year. So put on those boots, load the kids up and visit the popular Remlinger Farms for pumpkins and a host of Fall Harvest activities (every weekend in October).
DiStefano Winery is offering casual meals and family style culinary dinners. Courtesy photo.
Wineries are known for their wines, but at DiStefano Winery, food also takes prominence.
This summer, the longtime local winery entered the dining arena, offering casual meals and family style culinary dinners. Although the winery had been doing special events for a number of years, outside caterers had always provided the food.
“It was as a direct response to these events that we decided to build a kitchen and expand our dining area, which we call the Cellar Room,” explains Jaci Kajfas, DiStefano’s event coordinator. “Now, we can seat 40 people for an intimate sit-down dinner in the Cellar Room, as well as offer casual food options in our tasting room or out on our deck when the weather is nice.”
During regular hours in the tasting room, the emphasis is on bistro style, with offerings that include small artisan plates consisting of local cheeses, charcuterie, house marinated olives, fig jam, bruschetta and Macrina baguettes, along with Muffuletta or New Orleans style sandwiches and assorted salads.
Delectable dinners, “culinary delights that tantalize the imagination,” as DiStefano owner Mark Newton describes them, take center stage in the Cellar Room on various weekend evenings.
They feature fresh local cuisine accompanied by the winery’s high quality, award-winning wines.
An open kitchen design allows diners the ability to watch Executive Chef George Stevenson in action, as he whips up such specialties as hazelnut crusted hanger steak with potato-leek gratin Brussels sprouts or Coq au Vin, traditional French Chicken and red wine stew. “The dinners are usually built around themes,” says Kajfas. “Chef Stevenson has a great background in a variety of cuisines. He’s very talented and creative and we’re fortunate to have him heading up our kitchen.”
Stevenson is a graduate of the New England Culinary Institute and The University of the South in Sewanee, Tennessee.
He grew up in the South, as well as spent time in Belgium and Germany, giving him an international upbringing which has greatly influenced his culinary style.
Stevenson sharpened his skills working in award-winning restaurants, including Fuller’s in Seattle and The Sunset Grill in Nashville. He also served as chef for Lowell-Hunt Catering and banquet chef of Willows Lodge in Woodinville.
Some of the events Chef Stevenson does at DiStefano Winery focus on culinary demonstrations. An upcoming session is all about Spanish Tapas.
Another one emphasizes cooking with wine.
In the past, he has also taught knife skills to guests, instructing them on the different types of knives, how to select the right one and the proper way to use a knife in the deboning process.
Once a quarter, the winery holds cigar dinners, which include a five course dinner where each course is paired with a cigar and wine.
“These usually sell out,” comments Kajfas. “They’ve gotten to be very popular, and yes, with women as well as men.”
The response to the added component of food at the winery has been overwhelmingly positive, according to Kajfas.
She notes that people appreciate having fresh and tasty food options available while they sample and taste the wines.
“It’s just a nice addition and something that not many wineries offer, mainly because they don’t have a kitchen,” she adds.
DiStefano plans to continue to slowly grow the food side of the business and do more catering and special event dinners in the future.
“We’re thrilled that our special events have been so well-received,” says Kajfas. “We’ve done minimal marketing, so it’s really been a lot of word-of-mouth among people who know the winery. They come to one and then tell their friends and the interest just builds. It’s an exciting time for us.”
For more information about DiStefano Winery’s upcoming special event dinners, private events and catering services: (425) 487-1648 or www.distefanowinery.com.
According to the Department of Health and Human Services: The early years of a child’s life are crucial for cognitive, social and emotional development, therefore it is important that every step is necessary to ensure that children grow up in environments where their social, emotional and educational needs are met.
Many advocates of pre-school state that sending your child to an early education program, such as pre-school, can help with how they view and act in the social structure. The early introduction of education can influence and perhaps improve children’s cognitive and social growth.
Early education programs in Washington state, such as Head Start and Early Childhood Education and Assistance Program (ECEAP), offer free services to help children build their learning and social environment. These programs provide educational, health, nutritional and parent involvement services to low income families and children.
For example, Head Start offers children early academic enrichment in subjects such as: pre-reading, literacy, vocabulary, and pre-mathematics skills. Students, many of them 4 years old or younger, are also provided nutritious meals throughout the day. Furthermore, Head Start focuses on the well-being of the family by offering a wide array of social services, such as free health, physical and dental screenings.
A benefit to early education is giving children a chance to develop their personalities and nurture their behavioral growth, so they can become more independent.
Additionally, sending your children to these types of programs gives kindergarten teachers more leeway to teach students about school work rather than spending half the day teaching them about behavioral skills.
There is also a negative side to the field of early education programs. Some adversaries of early education programs argue that children can lose their concentration skills to focus on one activity because programs may bombard children with too many different simultaneous activities.
This type of bombardment can overwhelm the young mind because they are being read books that they may not fully comprehend or learning words that just don’t seem to make any sense to them. These frustrations can cause young children to become introverted or unfocused.
In any case, it is important to be involved with your child’s curriculum; doing so will help you create a stronger bond emotionally and academically with your child.
Written by Submitted by Jeffrey Woolley, Head of School, Dartmoor School
There is no doubt parental support is crucial to a child’s academic success. The obviousness of this truth, however, does not make it any easier to provide effective support for a child struggling with ADHD, learning disabilities, Asperger’s, ODD, or other complicating factors. Here are some basic strategies to implement that will allow you to construct a framework of meaningful support.
Understand your child’s unique needs. Observe your child in various settings. How does she act? How does she feel? How does she define herself? How does her behavior change between a setting where she thrives or is comfortable versus a more challenging environment? Are there behavioral or other complicating factors (low self-esteem, learning disabilities, hearing or vision problems, etc.)? The better you understand your child’s unique needs, the better situated you will be to help.
Know your child’s instructional level in core competencies. Do not assume your child is at grade level just because he progressed to the sixth grade. Progress in a traditional school relies more on seat time than mastery of concepts. Have a sense for whether your child is ready for fifth grade or algebra, etc. If he is behind, establish a plan for getting him up to speed. If he is ahead, establish an enrichment plan. Encourage awareness in your child so he becomes more cognizant of his own needs, strengths, and areas of difficulty. If the needs are complex, seek professional help from an educational consultant, neuropsychologist or other qualified professional.
Advocate for your child’s learning needs. Once you know your child’s needs and core levels, share them with her teachers so they can support her appropriately in the classroom. Good educators will welcome more information on your child’s needs as it will assist their efforts. Where possible, seek out teachers who understand unique needs and employ a variety of suitable teaching techniques. Work with the administration to ensure proper supports are in place. If the school does not provide for her needs, then assess whether her needs require supplemental help or another academic setting. Studies have shown that school culture and a student’s disposition to school are as crucial to success as solid teaching and basic skill acquisition. If your child does not feel respected or safe at school, then she will not thrive.
Encourage your child’s intellectual and personal interests. All children have an innate desire to learn and yet some children become disengaged from the formal learning process. This often happens because the instructional level or method is inappropriate to the student’s needs, but anxiety, depression, behavioral or social issues can also derail student progress. Not all students will have strong academic interests, but they generally will have some sort of interest such as athletics, music or a hobby. If a student is struggling with academics, then he needs an activity where he can succeed. Students who do not have a positive outlet might pursue negative behaviors instead. It is essential for students not only to learn how to solve algebraic equations and write five paragraph essays, but also to develop positive self-image and an ethos of lifelong learning and intellectual engagement.
Find a mentor for your child. Though it might seem unbelievable, your child (yes, even your refractory teenager) may listen to and respect a mature peer or adult role model in his life. Children, especially teenagers, tend to filter out parental input to a certain extent, but they often listen to a peer, favorite teacher, coach, therapist or other mentor. Encourage positive relationships between your child and people whom you trust and respect in your community.
Do not be afraid to ask for help. Sometimes the best way to maintain balance is to involve others. There are a lot of great individuals and organizations serving the Puget Sound region, including expert pediatricians, psychologists, psychiatrists, counselors, educational consultants and many other professionals as well as support groups and informational resources. One of the difficulties parents have is knowing where to start. The task is daunting but not impossible. Rather than reinventing the wheel, connect yourself to professionals and parents who have experience with your child’s needs. Start with your current network. Discuss your child’s needs with people you trust who can connect you to other services. A supportive educator, pediatrician or other professional who knows your child well is a good place to start. Organizations like Learning Disabilities Association of WA, ADD Resources, CHADD, and Northwest Autism Foundation all provide extensive resources free to the public and can help you become more aware of your local options. Dartmoor’s website has some excellent starting points for your own research: please visit www.dartmoorschool.org/resources for articles, links to organizations, and a bibliography of helpful books.
Maintain your perspective and sense of humor. Educating a child with special needs requires a lot of patience and many resources, but it also requires perspective and a sense of humor. Perspective reminds us what is important over the long term, that individuals require time and support to develop independence and skills, and that we all have different talents. Try not to take anything personally or allow your emotions to get the better of you. This is easier said than done, but a healthy sense of humor is perhaps the best strategy of all.